So at the ripe age of 30, I have given up on trying to find my Mr Right. In Beijing, even the most average Western men are able to attract pretty Chinese girls, who seem to be under the impression that they have all the style and sophistication of Daniel Craig.
As a result, the streets of the city are filled with smug-looking Western guys holding hands with their pint-sized Chinese princesses.
Petite and eager to please, these girls are so cute I don’t blame the guys for being attracted to them.
Also, it can get quite incestuous as the circle is small and gossip-ridden. The thing unique to Beijing is the addition of sexually curious local girls. The thing is, there’s a huge difference between guys who only date Asian and guys who just happen to date Asian. This world is sometimes too much for one person to handle. I'd say the locals set the global standard in being rude to waitstaff.None of them have turned out to be serious of course – and sums it up really.Marriage is not such a serious matter here it seems.On the other hand, the local dating scene is like shopping at Whole Foods. Going on dates there is like going to the grocery store. However, my passion is observing dating and relationships. Dating here becomes both heaven and hell for foreigner guys. The biggest problem with dating anywhere in the world is the lack of communication. I see all the ads on The that read “Seeking nice Chinese lady for marriage,” or “Want Chinese woman for lonely nights.” Everyone has their needs, but honestly, why limit your options to an ethnicity? Tell us about a few of your most popular articles you’ve written – what do you think was the reason behind their success? ""I see a lot of foreigners in Beijing being extremely rude to the fuwuyuan. What a strange string of comments about the treatment of fuwuyuan. If you went to a country where the locals beat their wives, would that make it OK for you to do as well?You get sucked in by the romanticized packaging, but at the end of the day, you have to fill one practical need: get fed. So while locals want to lead with their heart, having a car, an apartment and a good job might take precedence over emotional needs. You can always squeeze in a date between work and yoga. I don’t have a degree, I don’t have a certificate, and I don’t have fancy letters at the end of my name like R. I mentally collect stories and formulate patterns, trends and takeaways. It’s awesome because guys can get laid at every hutong corner, but the downside is local girls get attached more aggressively – not to mention the pervasiveness of STDs. People forget how to hold conversations, how to get to know a stranger, and how to be engaging. It shows disinterest, insecurity, and the possibility of a lazy eye (not cute). I see a lot of foreigners in Beijing being extremely rude to the fuwuyuan. 1) The Dating Timeline: Who You Should Be Dating at What Age 2) Heartbreak and the Emotional Cushion: How Men and Women Deal With Heartbreak Differently 3) Rejection, Lessons Learned From Chinese Dating Show Fei Cheng Wu Rao 4) What Do Men and Women Really Want 5) The Stages of Attraction 6) The Curse of the Buffet (What Happens With Too Many Options) 7) Why Some Women Lack Maternal Instinct All of these articles were popular because they dealt with the elephant in the room – the things that people are thinking but don’t want to say out loud. I agree with Yue Xu, I hate seeing foreigners poorly treat wait staff because they wouldn't dare to do so in their home countries. I like that she's observing the dating scene here and making comparisons to the states.Generally, in Singapore, it is acceptable to chat the member of the opposite sex up and subsequently exchange numbers.